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‘放下’在2016～




请容许我把一切在2017到来之前，放下在2016.。。

我很少在电子媒体上啰啰嗦嗦，适逢在2017到来之前的最后一天，突发奇想地想做个简单的总结。。。

不只在2016里，在以往几年里都和不同的人遇到在生活上，工作上，家庭上的分歧，包括朋友，家人，同事等等，分歧并没有带来任何极大的争辩或争吵，但是的确造成关系上的距离。这一切并没有谁对或谁错的原由，一切都归咎于大家站在不同的立场，角度和价值观的差异。

个人立场，角度和价值观的形成都有赖于个人经历和个人修养，正所谓同样是眼睛，但是却看见不同样的事。随着我个人的经历，虽说不算是什么大风大浪，但也不至于静如太平湖般。同样的随着这些经历造就了我个人成长不少。

对我而言，成长就是‘领悟’。。懂得欣赏适宜的‘安静’，懂得时间的宝贵，懂得心境的阔达，懂得怎样与逆境相处，懂得。。。等等。曾经有人对我说，相比以前，我脸上的笑容少了很多，话也少了很多。我可以说的就是我笑少了是因为我心里扎实了，我话少了因为我视野扩大了。我不再说话喋喋不休是因为我懂得聆听的价值了，我不再争夺不休是因为我懂得尊重差异了。

这是不是代表我个人胸无大志？没野心？我不是。。只觉得每个人在世界上都是独一无二的个体，所以我不需要和任何人比较，我只需要给每个人适宜的尊重，接纳每个人有的优与弊。我的野心很大，我在意个人成长，我在乎我个人的进展。因为我想成为一步比一步更好的自己～！所以我学会了先要管好自己～

谢谢让我成长不少的2016 ～！展望在2017有一个更好的自己！



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